DANIEL CLIFTON • PICAYUNE EDITOR
MARBLE FALLS — Even though Eric Penrod is a public school administrator, he’s also a father of three elementary-aged girls who has walked each one down that long hallway to her kindergarten class on the first day of school.
And during those walks and the days leading up to them, he has learned a few things about getting preparing for that big transition.
“You know, kindergarten is such a big step — not just for the child but the parents,” he said. “But making that first day, the first weeks and that first year smoother is sometimes just about getting ready.”
As the first day of school inches closer, Penrod said there are things parents of new kindergartners can do to make the adjustment to school — both for child and parent — smoother and more enjoyable.
“Yeah, it’s a big day,” he said. “I think one of the most important things we did was just talk about how exciting school is and how fun learning is. Just talking school up in a positive way has a big difference on how the kids approach that first day of class and even past that.”
Spicewood Elementary School Principal Leslie Baty has witnessed many kindergartners walk through the classroom doors as a teacher and an administrator. Like Penrod, she said the key for parents is not to wait until the morning of the first day to prepare themselves and their child.
“Definitely talk about school in a positive way and talk about how much fun school is,” she said. “And I know for some parents that can be a problem because maybe they didn’t have a great experience in school or didn’t really like it. But it’s so important that they give their kids a positive feeling for school.”
Even for children who have attended pre-school or daycare, the jump to kindergarten can be daunting. One way to ease the transition is to familiarize the child with the school. This could include a few trips to the school’s playground before the first day or driving by the campus several times and talking about how fun school is going to be to help ease any first-day anxiety.
Baty said something else parents can do is find another child who is attending the same campus. She recommended getting together with that child and his or her parents several times before the first day of class.
“That way, they’ll feel like they already know somebody at school,” Baty said. “Then, they’re thinking about seeing that friend on the first day of school and not so much about everything else.”
As a father, Penrod said one thing that really helps for the first day and the following few weeks is establishing a school routine before class starts. This means getting his daughters to bed at a regular time and setting a morning routine as well.
“It’s sounds so simple, but kids, they want a routine, especially when it comes to school,” he said. “So if you can get them in a routine a week or so before school, that first day goes so much better.”
Baty agreed.
“Get them to bed early, so they’re not so tired that first day,” she said. “Even start now because that first day can be so exhausting.”
Something else Baty recommends is reading to your child.
“I don’t think a lot of people put a lot of stock in reading, but it is so beneficial in so many ways,” she said. “There are so many studies that show how good reading with or just reading to your child can be. Even just having kids look at a book if they can’t read.”
Sometimes, the move into kindergarten isn’t just about the student. Parents can feel anxiety as well as they drop off their child on that first day in a place that’s even somewhat unknown to them. One way parents can ease that feeling is to attend “meet the teacher” nights at the campus.
But, in the end, parents just have to let go of their child’s hand, turn and walk out the door. Penrod knows that can be difficult.
“One of the biggest things parents should know is when they walk in that classroom door, that teacher loves their child so much,” he said. “Yeah, it can be tough, but these teachers are the best in the world. They love your child, and it’s going to be alright.”
daniel@thepicayune.com
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